This blog has not seen much action this year. Mainly, because of this rascal:
I’d love to write more, and hopefully will in the upcoming months. In the meantime, this post is my attempt to recap everything I would have blogged about this past year had I had the mental capacity to do so. Here it is, 2015 in one blog post:
January: The stressful end of 2014 – unending remodel, constantly sick kids, overworked husband, extreme lack of sleep, etc. – continued on into January, but things slowly turned up. The remodel wrapped up, we sort-of sleep-trained James (though it didn’t quite take), we began to settle into a routine. Now that James is a walking, running, climbing little boy, it’s hard to imagine that just a year ago he was still a baby, but it’s true, and this month saw him teething and cruising (or, the beginning of the end for me.)
February: Snow, snow, snow. School closures, school closures, school closures. I don’t know if Elisabeth saw the inside of her classroom that month. Instead, she watched a lot of Frozen. I’m a good parent. I also had an unfortunate incident in a Trader Joe’s parking lot involving my Toyota Highlander, a pole, and a personal injury lawyer’s BMW. Can we talk for a second about how it’s like a requirement that every Trader Joe’s has the worst parking lot in the city? Seriously. Every. Single. One. Anyway, moral of the story is don’t go to a Trader Joe’s on a holiday the day before a massive snowstorm.
Oh, we did have an exceptionally beautifully warm and sunny day in the early month that happened to coincide with our wildly successful housewarming party. Win!
March: March was a good month. Mainly because I stopped nursing James. If you read my blog last year, you may remember I basically ate birdseed for the majority of his infancy due to his allergic colitis. Well, that sucked, and he and I were both hungry all the time. So I began eating cheese again and he began drinking outrageously expensive hypoallergenic formula, and we were both the happier for it.
Other good things in March? My thirtieth birthday and a ski trip to Sunday River, Maine. I don’t ski, but Elisabeth does now!
April: My dad has been coming to D.C. frequently for work, so we have been lucky enough to see my parents on a monthly basis, at least. April was no different, and my mom joined us for Easter. We hosted all our local family for Easter dinner, which I only did because my mom was here to cook. My mom, Elisabeth, and I saw the live action Cinderella in theaters, and Elisabeth has not taken off her Cinderella costume since then. My dad came in a few days later and caught the end of Cherry Blossom season. The kids also enjoyed their first baseball game: Nats-Phillies. The Nats crushed it, but Elisabeth was too busy enjoying her snacks to notice.
May: The ‘rents were back at the beginning of the month, and my dad and I took the kids to the Museum of Natural History to get educated. Damon celebrated another year on Earth with his family and mine all present.
I got my first weekend away from both kids – what!? – and flew out to California for my friend Jessica’s bachelorette party. We spent a fantastic weekend in Santa Barbara drinking copious amounts of wine. Elisabeth had her last day of preschool, kicking off the longest summer break in the history of the world (Four months. FOUR!) and sadly had to say goodbye to her best friend, Anna, whose family moved to Florida. We still miss them, but such is the military life.
Of course, I can’t write about May without mentioning James’ first birthday! I tried to do a cute cake smash photo shoot and dress him up in one of those Pinterest-inspired outfits, and it was a complete failure. James, who is usually all smiles, refused to crack a grin and later erupted into full on tears when faced with his cake. Probably because he was dressed like a Chippendales dancer, as Damon pointed out. My bad. We had a laid-back BBQ to celebrate, and even my California-based brother made it out to attend.
Oh, and James began walking this month. Game over.
June: Welp, summer. Kids all day, every day. And our local pool has a five-and-a-half year waiting list (not an exaggeration.) Luckily the monotony of summer break was broken up with a trip to California for Jessica’s wedding. Damon was unable to attend, so I braved a cross-country flight with both kids on my own. AND I LIVED TO TELL ABOUT IT. The wedding, in Sonoma, was lovely. Elisabeth was the flower girl and kinda sorta stole the show. I mean, Miss Thing had a job to do and after that job was done, she needed to par-tay. My mom graciously traveled up to help me take care of the kids, so I also got to do partying of my own.
Also notable in June: James also got ear tubes put in and Damon and I sat down to watch a show together (True Detective, Season 1, in case you were wondering.) This may not seem notable to you, except that it was the first time we had done so since February 2014, possibly earlier. (What the Hell is Netflix and Chill?)
July: Still summer. Still a five-and-a-half year waiting list to get into our pool. July seemed interminable until it was time to pack for our summer vacation (an Alaskan cruise), when suddenly there were not enough hours in the day to get ready. It was our first vacation as a family of four, and a bucket list trip for Damon. I was just stoked to not have to fly by myself with two kids again. Before we had even boarded, our car seat got stuck in the security scanner and Elisabeth pooped in her pants (I had forgotten an extra pair of underwear, of course.) I now understand why my parents always took vacations by themselves.
We made it to Alaska and onto the ship, where we joined my parents. We traveled on a small ship with excellent service. Elisabeth befriended the entire ship’s staff, but especially Gede on the housekeeping staff, whom she called, “Mr. Ga-DAY!” and still talks about to this day. Alaska was beautiful, if a bit chilly, and we kept busy hiking, dog sledding, ziplining… you know, normal things. James and Elisabeth particularly enjoyed the cookies and ice cream that the staff spoiled them with on a daily (hourly?) basis.
Damon, James, and I stayed in Vancouver a few extra days and Elisabeth went home to California with my parents. Damon and I had a great time exploring Vancouver and Victoria with only one child.
August: I hopped down to California with James for another three weeks or so and discovered that James is a swimming prodigy just like his older sister. Check him out. 15 months old, people.
Upon returning to Virginia, Damon and I celebrated our fifth anniversary – and our first together since our first.
Most notably for me, I got my Fit4Mom certification. I’ve been a Stroller Strides devotee since Elisabeth was born, and I’d long considered becoming an instructor. Well, the stars finally aligned (somewhat suddenly!) and I had the opportunity to get certified at the end of this month. I’m thrilled to be teaching for this great organization.
September: Stilllll summer. We spent a fun-filled Labor Day weekend in Philadelphia with Damon’s extended family. I love, love, love that Elisabeth and James have this awesomely big family to grow up with.
I took my fourth trip in five months out to California for a college friend’s wedding. Lauren got married outside of Lake Tahoe. There were forest fires raging not too far away, but the wedding was rustic and beautiful and I appreciated the chance to catch up with old friends.
Then… PRESCHOOL STARTED! HALLELUJAH! I even put James in the nursery classroom at Elisabeth’s school for two mornings a week. While Elisabeth mentally exhausts me, James physically exhausts me. I was hesitant at first to put him in “school” while I’m at home, but I quickly realized the six hours a week he’s in the nursery helps keep me sane for the other 162 hours I have to deal with his shenanigans.
Oh, and our kitchen exploded. Okay, not really. But we had a slow leak that caused lots and lots of floor damage that we didn’t realize thanks to a large rubber mat in the kitchen. Hello, unexpected and unwelcome kitchen renovation. Buh-bye dishwasher, kitchen floor, cabinets, and countertops.
October: Fall was in full swing! We had a great day at the famed (at least in Northern VA) Cox Farms, Damon completed the Army 10-Miler AND the Marine Corps Marathon, we had a GLORIOUS long weekend in Freeport, Maine, and of course, Halloween. Elisabeth wanted to be Tinkerbell, which I fully supported since it was easy to find on Amazon. James was obviously Peter Pan. I’m going to milk the sibling costumes for as long as I can.
After co-teaching Stroller Strides throughout September, I started instructing on my own. I’ve been told I’m bossy, so getting to tell people what to do and how to do it – in a kind and encouraging way, of course – is right up my ally. Kidding. Sort of.
November: The birthday month. Elisabeth turned four on the 21st. FOUR. It’s kind of a big deal. She’ll tell everyone who asks (and even those who don’t) that she had three parties. THREE. Not really, but I’ll let her believe it. She had a little celebration in class, we went downtown with a couple of friends to see Cinderella – the Musical, and she had her princess-themed party. OK, it was kind of a lot. But as the world got a little darker this month, it was somewhat comforting to be surrounded by a throng of glittering, giggling, carefree princesses.
We celebrated Thanksgiving with Damon’s cousins, before heading back up to Philly for his family’s annual Turkey Bowl.
And perhaps most importantly, our kitchen remodel finished! It was an obnoxious inconvenience to be without a kitchen for two-and-a-half months (#firstworldproblems), but we did get a brand new floor and new countertops with insurance picking up the tab. Since our kitchen/living room floors looked so new and shiny and pretty, we decided we had to update the floors in our family room. And the outdated built-ins, while we were at it. And a couple other things, because why not? Thus began: Remodel, Phase 2.
December: We got some good news this month. For the past several months, James has had several hearing tests, all showing him to have some hearing loss. The audiologist finally suggested he undergo a sedated ABR to determine the significance of the loss. Well, the test showed his hearing is actually fine! That was a completely unexpected result, but an incredible relief.
We then got wrapped up in the usual holiday busyness. Damon and I attended a gala (for what, I still don’t know…), we hosted a small Christmas party, Elisabeth’s preschool put on a sweet Christmas musical, we visited the National Christmas Tree, etc., etc. All topped off by our family trip to California. We had a wonderful, semi-relaxing time with my family, and Santa was very generous to everyone. I guess we were good this year.
The kids and I returned home Wednesday evening, and Remodel: Phase 2 officially ended yesterday. Meaning we entered 2016 without any outstanding home projects! AMEN! Damon and I had big plans to celebrate NYE drinking champagne and watching The Holiday – and maybe even Love Actually, if we were feeling crazy – but much like last year, James had different plans for us. We ended up ringing in the New Year trying to coax a very awake toddler back to sleep. Oh, well. Everyone’s healthy, everyone’s home.
That brings me to today, January 1st. I noticed as I was reflecting on this past year that everything seemed so very normal. Which was kind of weird for us. The past several years were full of BIG things for our family – New jobs, new babies, new homes, crazy fun travel experiences…All amazing things. But it’s also kind of amazing to have a little calm (as calm as life can be with a preschooler and toddler) and consistency, a rare thing for a military family. So even if it was only for 2015, I’m going to appreciate it, and look forward to whatever exciting things 2016 will bring.
Happy New Year, Friends!